What to Say on Tinder if She Doesn’t Respond to Your Tinder Messages3 minute read

You’ve gotten a Tinder match with a beautiful woman, which is awesome! But after looking at her pictures, reading her bio and torturing yourself about what to say you’ll notice there’s still more to it… there are still your Tinder messages and how to message on Tinder to turn those matches into dates! Which is what we cover here: how to easily, quickly and naturally create the perfect first Tinder message that will get you more dates.


But this article is about what to do if she hasn’t responded to one of your Tinder messages, so let’s get to it!

Not Every Match Turns Into A Date

You’ve realized by now that not all of your matches will turn into dates. Sometimes it’s because she’s only looking for attention but other times it’s because there was a mistake made somewhere during the messaging process, possibly even on your first message on Tinder. Because sadly, not every woman will respond even if you’ve got the panty-dropping profile of the century, nothing in life will ever be 100% (and anyone that tells you otherwise is a liar). Even the course “How to Get Laid on Tinder” will not get you every girl, though it does give you more girls.

Thankfully as you read through this article and hear the words echo in your mind as you do, you will gradually, swiftly and quickly gain the tools to turn a few of those non-responders into dates and even girlfriends (and you’ll recognize that you need to get her attracted to you on that first date, click here for that)!

If She Doesn’t Respond:

First, don’t freak out! Some guys will panic and then send her follow-up message after follow-up message on Tinder until she finally responds. Unfortunately, by that point, she’s going to tell that guy to fuck-off.

So that’s step number 1, just breathe for a second.

Here’s What to Do If She Doesn’t Respond to Your Tinder Messages

Give her a few days and then if you want you can send a follow-up message (only a single follow-up though). If you send a message and she doesn’t respond, go ahead and give her a minimum of three days. You can even go up to a week if you want. Then send a follow-up message to re-start the chat. You can do this at any point in the conversation, whether it’s on the first message or even if you’ve been chatting a while. 

That’s what happened with the first girl that I ever fell in love with. She responded to my first message but then didn’t respond to my second. 

The magical line that got her to re-start the conversation where we then set up a date?

The Magical Message:

Here's the "Doesn't Respond to Tinder Messages" Plan:Don't panic, wait a few days and send a single follow-up to restart the conversation

“Happy Sunday!”

That’s it, that’s all I sent. Sometimes that is all it takes to re-start the conversation.  

Because if she thinks you’re sexy and wanted to respond but forgot this allows her to easily pick the conversation back up without losing face. This helps her to not feel like an idiot for accidentally blowing you off and it keeps you from committing one of these horridly dirty Tinder mistakes that DESTROY your chances.

So go ahead and send a follow-up. You don’t want to send any more Tinder messages after that because then you’ll look needy.

But if you give up after the first obstacle you might just miss out on miss perfect-for-you, and I shudder to think about what would have happened had I not met that girl. But what about you? Are you willing to give up miss-perfect-for-you because your pride got in the way?

Keep Moving Forward
-Alexander

Lastly, check out the full course that covers EVERYTHING in online dating that you’ll need to know to get more dates using Tinder!

UPDATE: After learning how to squeeze a few more dates out of your account you’ll realize that learning how to command respect through a dominating presence so men respect you and women find you sexier will help you logically and intuitively turn the matches you do get into dirty Tinder stories!

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